Some women who are dealing with infertility are really bothered by Mother's Day. I've never really felt that way. I do sometimes feel uncomfortable when they ask all the mothers to stand. It kind of singles you out, but it's no big deal. I don't cry or squirm in my seat. I just look at all the babies and long for the day when I will be dedicating mine.
However, I think that Mother's Day makes other people uncomfortable around me. They all mean well, but many of them just say the wrong thing or give you that I-feel-sorry-for-you look. I can't speak for everyone, but I'd prefer people not to ask me if I'm okay or fret over me. I'm fine, and I really don't want attention drawn to me. You don't have to say anything to me or console me. I really am okay, because I'm completely confident that I'm going to have a baby soon.
I would love it if churches did something for the women who were never able to have children or the ones who are dealing with infertility or the ones who have felt the sting of losing a child or the ones who never married. It would be nice to see a flower arrangement in the sanctuary with a note in the bulletin dedicating it to those women. Just a simple reminder that we are not forgotten would be a wonderful gesture. Maybe I can do that one day.
To all you wonderful mothers out there, never take for granted what you have. Thank God every day for your blessings. Always remember that there are plenty of women who would give anything to have what you have. Thank you for all you do, and Happy Mother's Day.
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